There is a good book you should get called Blessing the King of the Universe. In it you will find that in every thing you do you should bless the L-RD. And by blessing the L-RD I mean that you should show awe, recognition, pay homage to, because we can give him , the creator of the universe no blessing of something he doesnt' already have, exept our obedience and love. So to bless him is not like him blessing us.
For example when you wake up, recognize how he is tied into everything about it.
Thank him for a safe and restful sleep, for being able to open your eyes and see all around you. To hear the sounds of the morning, to smell the coffee brewing, to hear the laugh or crying of your child. to have hunger in your belly for food and being able to walk to you kitchen or go out to the store or resturant and satisfy that. To have a car to get there, to have a job to go to afterwards, to make it there safe, to have the job you have when others don't.
See what I mean? In everything acknowledge that it all comes from him. I think when you start to do this, the complaining about things in life will decrease, you will see how blessed You are and bless him even more!
